Sometimes we find ourselves in a situation where we don’t have exactly what we need to get a job done. When the “job” is taking care of ourselves, we might easily substitute say, a household item, for a proper piece of durable medical equipment. I understand this.
However when the “job” is taking care of a loved one, we need to be really careful. Often when first posed with an accessibility or care need does the loved one want to inconvenience us or cost us extra time or money. In doing so our loved one may overestimate his or her ability to help (e.g. reach something from the floor or take a shower after a medical procedure) posing a risk for injury to both of you! Here are some examples. See if any sound familiar to you?
CASE #1: An item falls to the floor near a door where a person with low vision has just entered on a rainy day. Oh dear. The floor is wet but it is hard to see and the keys are lying right next to the puddle! Rather than asking for help or even gently nudging the keys to another place next to a chair (or counter to support body weight and balance), he or she reaches down and risks slipping on the wet floor. The dog or cat strolls by providing a bit of distraction, further affecting the ability to make a good decision as well.
CASE #2: Mom is recovering from surgery and anxious to get back to work. She prides herself in her independence and keeping her home nice for guests. Adding any bathroom equipment would bring a “hospital” feel to the rest room that is also used by family when they visit. How embarrassing! So she has her son retrieve a 2-step, step ladder from the garage and place it inside the tub/shower to use as a shower chair instead of purchasing a shower chair and tub rail. Both of the latter could be removed for guests, placed in storage when no longer needed, and even be taken with her when travelling. Oh well. The step ladder has sharp edges from that project cleaning the gutters last Fall and ends up scratching her leg when using it as a shower chair. Mom uses the towel rack as a “light hand hold” for about 2 weeks, eventually loosening the wall anchors and posing a grave risk for falls should it come loose sometime getting into or out of the tub/shower.
CASE #3: Brother is quite independent during the daytime now, maneuvering his wheelchair and going to the bathroom independently since recovering from a serious stroke awhile back. He likes to surf the internet when home alone but has no cell phone or land line available to him until evening when the family returns. One morning he wakes up to the smell of natural gas and realizes he has no easy way to get out of the double-front door on his own or call for help.
As you can determine from these examples posed by everyday activities, there are simple solutions to these problems when we prepare ahead of time for them! In my Living Safely Program presentations I would divide the topic into 3 areas: Medical Conditions, Slips-and-Trips, and Behavior. In Case #1, every effort must be made to dry ones footwear when entering the home in addition to minimizing glare from lighting or sunshine on smooth flooring surfaces. The latter makes it nearly impossible to see water on the floor. In Case #2, we need to provide the right equipment for the right task, check it often, and offer to help with the softer concerns (such as appearances) when necessary. In both Cases #2 & 3, we need to problem-solve scenarios with our loved ones in advance and include them in coming up with the best solutions. Emergency contact systems are now available that look more like a “Fitbit” for kids than a wrist-operated medical alert button; an emergency-only cell phone is quite inexpensive to own and operate these days.
We could chat at length about other considerations in each of these situations. Feel free to comment your suggestions and experiences below. I would love to hear from you!
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